How Do You Cope?
DWC Staff and friends speak to their personal methods for coping with anxiety and stress
By Nicole Barrett, DWC Blog Editor
Trigger Warning: eating disorders, mental health issues
During the month of May, mental health is brought to the entire country’s attention. Mental Health Awareness Month was put into effect in 1949 to reduce the stigma of mental health issues and to provide support for those going through those issues. We here at Dancewear Center believe that mental health is something that is very important to talk about and it is important to know that you are not alone in what you are feeling. Many people can feel stuck when they are experiencing bad mental health days and it is important to find ways to alleviate that. We got to speak with some of our staff and ambassadors about what they do to cope with their mental and physical health through hard times. Read on to learn more about how they take care of themselves during rough times.
Emma
When I'm going through a season of life where I'm dancing a lot, I find I have to prioritize my health above all else in order to perform at the highest level possible. For me personally, I find that my physical and mental health affect one another, and if one starts to suffer, the other soon follows suit. It's taken me a long time to find routines that I feel good about and that work for me, and a lot of it is trial and error. What works for one dancer won't necessarily work for another.
I have in the past struggled with several injuries. The thing that I have found to be one of the most helpful things in my routine is cross-training and weightlifting. I also try to implement yoga (I love hot yoga too!) and pilates regularly into my schedule as well. When I have performances coming up, I try to schedule physical therapy, chiropractor, acupuncture, and massage sessions around those.
To take care of myself after dance and working out, my favorite things are using my muscle gun, gua sha, and also ice baths for my feet and ankles after a lot of pointe work. I also try to roll out or stretch when I can- but some nights I'm just too tired too and that's okay! I'm also a big fan of different topicals and creams if I am struggling with pain. You can get my favorite Tiger Balm at DWC. ;)
Some daily habits that keep me on track include eating regularly throughout my days, even when I'm super busy and making sure I'm getting my vitamins, supplements, and water in. A big factor in my mental health is also sleep! I notice I start to feel worse when I'm not getting enough sleep, so I try to have good sleep hygiene and a night routine. This is definitely always a struggle for me, but the rest we get can have a huge impact, especially since as athletes we have to give our muscles enough time to rest and repair themselves. Now, you might be confused at this next one, but I notice a significant difference in my state of mind when I make my bed each morning and keep my space clean. A clean space is a happy space, and I can tell my mental health is declining if my space starts to get cluttered and dirty.
I also think as dancers we are notoriously awful at knowing when to say "no" or "I need a break". If you need a rest day- take it! If you need a mental health day, carve time out of your regular schedule to spend time with friends, family, or just yourself, or to do whatever you may need. You will ultimately be a better performer when you feel rested and whole as a person who has a life outside of the studio.
And as always, never be scared to reach out for help. I am a huge advocate for seeing therapists, dietitians, psychiatrists, and other health professionals. I think a common misconception is that something must be "wrong" when we seek out mental health services, but really, it can be useful when you are just needing someone to talk to, or need help building routines or gaining new coping skills.
Ethan
Routine! I have built an evening recovery routine for myself that I do every single day. It is comprised of stretching, foam rolling, and using a lacrosse ball. I have noticed that if I do this only one evening (or even occasionally) there is only a minimal amount of gain in terms of how loose and relaxed I can move the next day. But having done this every day I regularly feel closer to my best. Routine is also calming to me, it helps me unwind and focusing on a singular task is almost like meditation.
Nicole
Take breaks! Whether the specific issue you are dealing with is mental or physical, everybody needs a break. Knowing when you need to take a break or take a step back is key to making sure you are prioritizing yourself. I have been through some major injuries and mental health situations in my dance journey that have forced me to take a step back from the thing that I love. Although I hated this break at the time, I look back on it now and I am so grateful that it happened to me. This break not only let me heal my body, but I also regained my love and passion for dance that was being overshadowed by my injury and self doubt.
Just be sure to remember as you are dealing with these issues that you are not alone and it is okay to not be okay. Never be scared to reach out to somebody if you think you need help. Throughout my break in dance, I was consistently talking with a professional to help me navigate through my emotions. Remember that you got this and whatever you are going through does not define the dancer you are.
Kendall
As a dancer, my mental health is just as important as my physical health. I find I struggle with bring my anxieties into the studio. I like to journal my thoughts down before going into class, that way I can focus on enjoying the movement and making corrections. I also try to avoid imposter syndrome and comparison by looking at old videos and pictures so I can see how far I’ve come. I also look for my safe people and friends within the studio who I can go to with my struggles. It’s important to remember you aren’t alone in your struggles, a lot of dancers deal with the same issues.
Robbi
Some basic things that I do to take care of myself are going on walks, when I can, and listening to music that I really enjoy. I can get drained from a lot of social interaction, and as a freelance dance artist, it is important to rest my body and mind when I can. It is okay to not be everywhere all of the time. Doing things for myself that help me feel like I am not missing out on anything is very important in a culture that is designed to make people think they are not doing enough, when our minds are trying to keep track of more things than ever before. Use your dancer brain to realize that it is all a performance, and that there are always things behind the scenes of everyone's lives that are not being advertised.
I love to touch grass, smell flowers, and see other people in real life and not just online. It is a reminder that the body I dance in is not separate from the body that I experience the rest of my life in. Saving up energy so that I can show up for the things that really matter to me has been so helpful this year. It gives me more to say as a person and as an artist when the time comes. It is okay to let people miss you. It is in the missing that you remember not to take each other for granted. This can apply to your relationship with dance as well.
Lastly, remember that the party does not start until YOU walk in.
We hope that some of these tips can help you during hard times. Know that you are never alone and there is always someone to talk to when things get low. If you ever need any further help, please call the crisis hotline at 988.
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